Got engage into a meaningful discussion over beancurd session just not too long ago.
Love (feeling) or Compatibility (character),
as in; if a relationship comes to a point where there's definitely love elements but character clashes. Often occurs when 'honeymoon' period end.
What would become of it?
Do you persist and try to work it out or do you just give it up?
And if you persist and it leads to nowhere, do you still carry on hoping?
I believe for a Long Term Relationship to work out, you need to balance up both.
Abit of patience, maybe a year or two to see if there's a possibility to maintain or to strike a balance, you don't just decide after a couple of months. (uds mah 6 jiao xing xing?)

Love is just like betting on racing horses, keep buying and hope you strike jackpot?
Haha...just too bad i don't bet...at least not for now.